Beginning of Advent Reflection

Chris Novak and Br. Kevin Kriso, OFM, offer their thoughts for the beginning of Advent. Please share your thoughts and reflections.

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Reading 1
Is 63:16b-17, 19b; 64:2-7

You, LORD, are our father,
our redeemer you are named forever.
Why do you let us wander, O LORD, from your ways,
and harden our hearts so that we fear you not?
Return for the sake of your servants,
the tribes of your heritage.
Oh, that you would rend the heavens and come down,
with the mountains quaking before you,
while you wrought awesome deeds we could not hope for,
such as they had not heard of from of old.
No ear has ever heard, no eye ever seen, any God but you
doing such deeds for those who wait for him.
Would that you might meet us doing right,
that we were mindful of you in our ways!
Behold, you are angry, and we are sinful;
all of us have become like unclean people,
all our good deeds are like polluted rags;
we have all withered like leaves,
and our guilt carries us away like the wind.
There is none who calls upon your name,
who rouses himself to cling to you;
for you have hidden your face from us
and have delivered us up to our guilt.
Yet, O LORD, you are our father;
we are the clay and you the potter:
we are all the work of your hands


Gospel
Mk 13:33-37

Jesus said to his disciples:
“Be watchful! Be alert!
You do not know when the time will come.
It is like a man traveling abroad.
He leaves home and places his servants in charge,
each with his own work,
and orders the gatekeeper to be on the watch.
Watch, therefore;
you do not know when the Lord of the house is coming,
whether in the evening, or at midnight,
or at cockcrow, or in the morning.
May he not come suddenly and find you sleeping.
What I say to you, I say to all: ‘Watch!’”

By Chris Novak
As the Advent season begins, several ideas and themes come to mind. The readings for the first Sunday of Advent tell us this is a season of waiting and preparing for the birth of Christ. However, simply doing those things isn’t enough. Christ calls us to actively wait and prepare. One of the biggest teachings He gave us was to love one another as we love ourselves. Although we should remember that all year, it seems to be more prevalent during this time of year. Actively waiting and prepares asks us to follow Christ’s example and live our lives for others. I have learned this from watching what my mother does every year at this time.

My mother participates in a community toy drive through a charity organization. Parents of families in low income areas in our community write Christmas letters to the organization, listing items they want to give to their children, but simply cannot afford them. Other people in the community choose one of lists and purchase the items for the children. The parent who wrote the list will receive the items just before Christmas Day and will have gifts to give their children.

We often talk about this time of year being full of commercialism and materialism, and doing something like this can easily fall into those trends. However, looking at the motivation behind the actions can reveal the true meaning of it. I’ve been fortunate enough to always have presents under the tree on Christmas morning. But from what I learned from my parents, the act of giving a gift is more than just getting me something I asked for. It’s about the joy of giving someone a loving and accepting feeling. My mother knows this feeling. When she participates in this program every year, she knows what it’s like as a mother to give her children that feeling and wants other mothers and fathers to experience that feeling too.

Based on her example, I also participated in this program. As an officer in a high school club a few years ago, I suggested we choose a list. Each member of the club was responsible for buying one item on the list and we donated all of them as a group. It made me realize the importance of giving others something I had: the support of a family who could provide for me.

During Advent, we are asked to prepare for Christ’s birth. It’s a good chance for us to examine what we have and what we can give to others. As we prepare, we need to recognize the reason behind our preparing. For me, it’s to more closely follow Christ’s example. His birth marked the beginning of the life we as Christians want to live. Christ lived his life giving to others. Maybe that’s why we give gifts to those we love today. And although material items are fun to give, let’s think about the feelings we want others to have from receiving the gifts we give them.


By Br. Kevin Kriso, OFM
The readings for this First Sunday of Advent also speak to me about active waiting and preparation for the coming of Christ. Isaiah writes, “Would that you might meet us doing right.” And in the Gospel Jesus says “May he not come suddenly and find you asleep.” In other words they are warning us, “Be ready!”

This reminds me of a bumper sticker that was popular years ago. It said, “Jesus is coming soon. Look busy!” For those of us who sometimes slack off in our spiritual lives and practices, it was a funny way for us to get back on track and “get with it!” It is nice to think we will be caught in the act of “doing good” when the day of the Lord arrives. However, with my luck I will be caught reading some silly book and eating potato chips and bacon horseradish dip. But wouldn’t being in a state of “red alert” at all times be exhausting? I mean, we do need to sleep every once in a while.

What is the answer? I think a good metaphor would be that of a good host or hostess. All of us have seen people who seem to effortlessly provide wonderful hospitality. They are always prepared for whatever might happen. This person does not seem to get stressed out that things may or may not turn out right. He or she does not get self-conscious. They focus not on themselves but on meeting the needs of others and genuinely enjoy seeing other people having a good time. They don’t get tired out by their efforts. And if anyone compliments them on their actions, they honestly don’t see that they are doing anything special. For them being hospitable is not the exception in how they live their lives, but the norm.

As Chris described his mom and her quiet witness, I can’t help but think she is one of those people who “gets it.” Going shopping for a poor family is not exhausting for her but fun. She probably can picture in her mind’s eye small children really getting the feeling that they “count” and are loved. Others around her can’t help but catch the spirit. They want to be part of it too. Who knows, maybe on the day of the Lord’s coming Chris’ mom will actually get caught in a department store filling a shopping cart with clothing and toys. And Jesus will smile.

Advent is in its own way a hospitality course. It has many lessons for us. Be ready. Do right. Be prepared. Have fun enjoying others enjoying themselves. Be glad that God used you as a tool to make good things happen for others. Advent also reminds me of a quote from the George Michael song “Praying for Time” in which he chastises those for whom “charity is a coat you wear twice a year.” When charity is a way of life, it is not tiring. It is uplifting. That is why the happiest and holiest people are not those who think less of themselves, but those who think of themselves less.

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